a good book and be out of the existing world for a moment with this book. A book makes that you can go on a journey lying in bed, on the couch or on the beach. Hearing the water of the sea and dreaming of a love that is not capable to move, makes that you will have to move if you want to see him.

The person that does not have an address of his holiday friend, must stay at home and hope that the holiday friend will turn up again. He has to stay where he is to make it possible for the holiday friend to find him again.

That is the old-fashioned way. The new fashioned way is putting on the computer, go in the world wide web and search. Search in facebook, twitter, or google if you know a name.

Than you may find the daughter of a friend that you did not hear of for the last 15 years. The contact was broken suddenly, without you knowing why. Your efforts to re make contact were not succesful so you try to find the daughter and you find her.

She is a modern young lady which means that she is to find in facebook. Not everybody can be found that way. A lot of people are soo afraid of contact that they do not use their own name.

And the woman that was married may have changed her name so you will not be able to find her. The young girl Estèle that chose to visit a castle in France with a young dutch woman, is over 30 now and not aware about the importance of this visit.

She made that the young woman no longer did not like children. She played with the young woman a play that the young woman understood. That had not been done for years and it is still remembered. The picture of Estèle, sitting in front of the little door of the small tower was beautiful but only her parents have it.

They did not want Estèle to visit the castle with the young dutch woman, as they thought that was "not done" but Estèle was smarter than all the grown up. She came to the young dutch woman again and again and left with her parents without any problem

The young dutch woman was not sad but would have loved to stay in the physical contact. The own state of coma made this impossible. No words were available to talk with the parents and make a grown up contact.

Too many emotions took the ability to talk. No words came, no questions that opened up for a stable talk.

The non speaking emotional person is like a patient in coma who only has this state all the time. He can not tell what he needs but he can let you know. You only have to learn his language.