The water of the lake is cold. It is not too cold to swim but after just some minutes the physical body gives the informtation "cold".

The idea of having a bath in the lake in stead of taking a shower was there before, but as children are not allowed to go down the stairs without an adult around, it was not possible.

Our relationship started in a time that we were children and we did not meet in the time we grew up. So meeting again, my inner child does not dare what it was not allowed.

I have never been here as a child but the rule that children are not allowed to go down on their own is that clear that my inner child did not dare to go down without permission.

Unconsious we get aware about rules, permissions and prohibitions and we will follow them as well as expectations.

If the parents expect a child not to be able to stand on the own feet and earn the own living, the child may be able to earn the own living for a while, but if he is not aware about this conviction of his parents, he can try to be a good child by doing what his parents expect from him.

If the family has the rule that the man must earn the money for wife and children and the woman has to stay at home to look after husband and children, the women of the family may not be able to carry out their needs that are connected to their carreer.

The women in this family will be very supporting to foreigners but they will not be able to support the own family.

They usually work in the hospital, a hotel or restaurant or have another job that needs emloyees that serve the foreigners before the own people, who do not mind to be the last one served, as they have the same attitude.

But the inner child needs the permission of the parents to be able to laugh, dance and have a good time without having to sell anything. The good time that is connected to the use of alcohol may become a horrible remembrance because one does not remember what has happened.

The girl that told the parents it was visiting a girl friend but went to visit a boy friend by train was very surprised not to find her bike at the train station again as she came back.

She did not want to tell the truth so she had to tell another lie and in stead of telling the bike was stolen at the train station, she told it was stolen near the church.

So that was told the police and signed for. This lie was a very special one becaue a friend of the parents gave the advice to look in the internet on a selling page and the bike would urely be in it in 2 or 3 weeks.

Two or three weeks is also the time that a letter that is written to Royalties useually needs to be answered at, but of course there are exeptions.

Letters that tell about the existance of the hpi-therapy that changes the life of patients in coma because the given therapy is changed, are not answered.

Not only letters but also mails are rarely answered, unless the person has an automatical note of holiday or other being absent installed.

And in the meantime they look in their mailbox as everywhere they come, they have the internet connection and without mobil they can not be.

So at first you get this note of absence and a few minutes later you get an e-mai or sms with the answer on your question.

Letters that is signed for by the writer at the delivery and not given a note of acceptance, is what only few organisations can allow to do.

The state is one of them. You do not get a note of acceptance that is written on an official paper but just a white page with some stamps, just to keep you silent?

What happens in the hotel that also writes such a piece of paper to make clear to the visitor that he is not wanted here as he has dared to speak loud and clear about patients in coma and their treatment?